A silent reminder to all of us moms… Don’t miss out on the life around you every day in your kids’ smiles, tears, feelings, growth…
As mothers, we are confronted with negative situations every day.
We need to correct that, clean this mess up, wash another load of laundry, issue some more discipline, etc.
It never ends.
It’s easy to forget the good things in life, the common, everyday blessings that can make us smile… when we see them.
This is helping me to look for more good in the everyday, common things.
The light breeze, the constant chatter of a 3-year-old, the “Mommy” turning into “Mom!”, the smell of fresh-cut grass….
How much good can you find today?
Definitely need to remember that!
And some links for you this weekend:
50 Ways to Love Your Child Every Day Using Love Languages | Bow of Bronze
Fill the Freezer with Easy Recipes for Summer | Life As Mom
Put the Phone Down and be a Mother | Growing Home
Be Like The Sun: Move Slowly, Radiate Warmth, Shine | Simple Mom
40 Preserving Links (and canning with honey!) | Simple Bites
“Just hurry up!”
I catch myself saying that a LOT lately. It seems I’m constantly telling my son to hurry up with eating, dressing, undressing, going outside, coming in… everything.
It hit me the other day:
Do I really want my kids to hurry up about EVERYTHING?
Is that the message I want them to come out of childhood with?
The more I think about it, the more I realize that I want them to do just the opposite.
I want them to slow down. To enjoy life. To cherish every moment.
And if I’m always telling them to hurry up, how will they ever learn to JUST. SLOW. DOWN.
The words I say have a huge impact on the way their little minds think, the way I speak to them becomes their inner voice to themselves.
Is ‘hurry up’ really what I want their default thought-line to be? Is that what I want them to tell themselves, subconsciously, for the rest of their lives?
No, I don’t.
While there are times that it’s necessary to do things quickly, I do not want to instill in my children the feeling that life is a race against time, like if they aren’t fast enough, they aren’t good enough.
Because the truth is: they are always good enough for me, no matter how quickly, or slowly, they accomplish things.
I will always love them.
If I want them to know that hurrying doesn’t make them any better, if I want them to slow down and enjoy life, then I need to change the way I speak to them.
If I’m trying myself to slow down every day, then I need to make my words match my actions, so they can learn to do the same.
It’s going to take some time to break this habit, but I believe it’s worth it.
I get the most out of my summer vacation by “doing” the least. I get the most of my summer vacation by simply being — by simply “spending” hours.
“Spend the afternoon, you can’t take it with you.” That’s what Annie Dillard said.
This summer, I plan to do as little as possible. Forget the projects, activities, scheduled events and the clock. I just want to spend my time enjoying life, family, and all the beauty around us every day.
I will accomplish very little, but enjoy every moment I can, and spend as much time as I can doing nothing.
This summer, I want to fill my hours and days with laughter, love, and just “being”.
What about you?
(Edited To Add: This post over at Simple Mom is all about embracing summer!)
Photo Credits: Photo 1 Photo 2 Photo 3 Photo 4
“We’re so busy watching out for what’s just ahead of us
that we don’t take time to enjoy where we are.”
Have (North) American Parents Got It All Backwards? | Huffington Post – Some serious food for thought here for all us mothers!
Why Kids Need Both Choices and Boundaries | Not Just Cute
You Can’t Do Anything You Want | Simple Mom
Practical Ideas for a Summer of Learning | Simple Homeschool
Let Your Kids Get Dirty | Simple Mom
15 Ways To Eat More Vegetables | Motive Nutrition
10 Ultimate Summer Popsicle Recipes | Weed ‘Em and Reap
Have a great week!
I realize that title is probably making you think of paints and canvases and a huge mess, like you remember from art class when you were a kid. And while that is usually the first thing that comes to mind when the word ‘art’ is mentioned, this post is not necessarily about finger-painting or making clay sculptures with your kids.
Lately, I’ve come across various articles and blog posts dealing with the idea of creating beauty in our lives. And I’ve realized that no matter who you are, where you live, or what your circumstances are, everyone has the ability to create beauty and be an artist.
After all, that’s what an artist is: someone who creates beauty. And there are myriads of ways of being an artist.
As mothers, we have more opportunities to be artists than most people. Creating beauty not only enriches our own experience, but also the lives of everyone around us. Simple things we can do every day have the power of changing the way our families see life and the world around them.
Picking a bouquet of wildflowers and arranging them in a pretty vase can add instant colour and life to a home and make everyone who walks by smile inside without even realizing it.
Lighting a scented candle, or playing beautiful music throughout your day can drastically change the level of palpable joy and comfort your family experiences in your home.
And there are more radical ways of creating beauty in your lives. Laughter, or just a simple smile, can turn someone’s day around. Sharing a good story, baking cookies, taking a long walk on a warm evening, singing a song, holding your child’s hand, opening a window, planting a garden… all of these are simple things, but when shared with those you love, they can change the way your family will remember the past.
And by giving them, and yourself, beautiful memories, you are also creating beauty in the future, not just the present. Motherhood is an amazing thing, isn’t it?
And the easiest way to create beauty? Just. slow. down.
Look around and let the beauty you see everywhere around you enter your heart, not just your eyes.
Just slowing down can give you instant beauty and joy.
By continually finding new ways to add joy to the lives of everyone we love, and in seeing the joy in their eyes, we find joy ourselves in the knowledge that we helped them see a little more beauty in life.